On two of my shocks, I found the nut rotated without coming undone, even when gripping the outer casing of the shock itself.
A nutsplitter is a good idea although I got a similar and less brutal result with a Dremel and cutting disc(s). A couple of cut slots will weaken the nut's grip enough to break it apart with a stout screw driver. The shock absorber will come out undamaged if you are careful not to cut into it's threads. In my case the shocks were worn out anyway, so I could have been a bit more aggressive with their removal. I replaced with Gaz adjustables.
Jeff