Whooooa!!!! I HAVE CRACKED IT !!
Thank you all for your help
it was very very useful and with the assistance of the wiring diagram that David posted i managed to locate the two correct wires and it works like a dream
I will do a description of what i did to install the kit which i bought from DEMON TUNING http://www.demontuning.co.uk/
The Honda S2000 starter button needs a lot of cutting away to get it to fit as it fouls on the gearchange metal housing.
Thank you all again