Well Peter popped round and I had a look at the dodgy upper arm. Initially it felt like the track rod end was wobbling however it soon became apparent that the top arm had more movement than I had EVER felt in a needle roller bearing!
I suspect one of a couple of options:
1. The bearings have given up so badly that they no longer hold the bolt (unlikely)
2. The bearings are missing (or some or them) and allowing the bolt to move (possible)
3. The plate that the bolt goes through (kind of oval shaped plate) is missing allowing the bolt to move around (possible)
So over the next week or so we are going to have a proper look. The car has has a replacement sub-frame and a few front panels, likely due to a bump at some point, and so it's possible that the top arm was botched at the same time. Hopefully it will be a quick fix, and worst case I have a spare arm in the shed to pop on. Question is - just to check - does the F top arm fit a TF? I think they are the same at the front!
Unfortunately the top radius arms are quite different, however the pivot shaft and needle roller bearings (or service kit) are the same.